Do Girls Change After A Relationship?

rediffGURU Anu Krishna explains how to evaluate your priorities and set aside time for each other.

Have you felt like your girlfriend has changed after you began your relationship?

Do you feel she interferes and that you no longer have any personal space?

rediffGURU Anu Krishna, a mind coach, relationship expert and co-founder of Unfear Changemakers, explains how to evaluate your priorities and find time for each other in a committed relationship.

You can post your relationship related questions to rediffGURU Anu Krishna HERE.

Anonymous: Every time I make plans with my friends, my girlfriend gets upset.
My friends also think she is too controlling.
She says I don't care about her when I spend time with others.
I am not liking this.
Why do girls change after being in a relationship?
I used to have a social life before this relationship.
How do I balance my personal space with our relationship?

The dance between your personal and social life is a very delicate one.

For starters you need to push back on both fronts.

Once you have done this, it's time to evaluate your priorities, set aside time for your girlfriend and your friends and tell both sides that this is how you will be spending time. But also understand that your girlfriend will need more of your time, so, don't resist it.

You will only end up arguing and spoil your interactions. Learn this delicate dance.

You can post your relationship related questions to rediffGURU Anu Krishna HERE.

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