We'd asked you, dear readers, to write a message to your 15-year-old self.
Here Rediff reader Hari Krishnan Nair, 43 from Chennai shares his message.
When you are young, you may feel that you have enough experience to deal with certain situations. But you will soon realise your inability to take risks.
You may have many dreams and goals. You will want to buy a car, become an entrepreneur.
While chasing these goals, remember not to get lost. Don’t be too materialistic. Focus on your growth as a human being as well.
Appreciate those little milestones you will achieve along the way.
When it comes to relationships, especially friendships, it is important to let go of certain old connections. New connections will take their place.
As you grow up, you will see how friendships are created in groups on social media. Even though these (social media) applications will offer free voice and video services, you may not have a lot of friends who will call or care for you.
The only text messages you will receive and make you aware that you have grown one more year older will be birthday wishes.
I want to share an important message: Don't live your life as per other people's expectations. Don't indulge in self-blame and pity.
Respect and trust yourself. Don’t allow external bodies to take charge of your emotions.
Your happiness and success in life will depend on the choices you make today. So choose well.
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Dear readers, what would you like to tell your 15-year-old self?
To love more? To let go?
To learn from your mistakes or deal with failures better?
What's the one message/advice you'd like to share with your younger self?
Simply write a letter and send it to getahead@rediff.co.in (subject: Dear 15-year-old self) along with your NAME, AGE, LOCATION and a photograph, if possible. We'll feature the best responses right here on Rediff.com.
