RediffGURU KANCHAN RAI

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'I'm Married But I Love My Cousin'

'I'm Married But I Love My Cousin'

Rediff.com   1 Dec 2025

rediffGURU Kanchan Rai, a relationship coach and founder of Let Us Talk Foundation, explains how you can get over the pain by accepting failure and rejection gracefully.

'Mom And Wife Not On Talking Terms... What Can I Do?'

'Mom And Wife Not On Talking Terms... What Can I Do?'

Rediff.com   19 Nov 2025

You cannot 'fix' the relationship between your mother and wife, says rediffGURU Kanchan Rai. You can only create conditions for healing.

What To Do When Parents Disapprove Of Your Partner

What To Do When Parents Disapprove Of Your Partner

Rediff.com   3 Oct 2025

You need to first answer an important question -- what matters most for your long-term happiness? Your parents' wishes or staying with a partner you love, advises rediffGURU Kanchan Rai, founder of the Let Us Talk Foundation.

'My Wife Wants An 'Emotional' Divorce'

'My Wife Wants An 'Emotional' Divorce'

Rediff.com   15 Sep 2025

'It is practical to co-exist under one roof in such a setup, but only if both partners can maintain respect, avoid conflict, and genuinely focus on the kids without bitterness.'

I Like A Co-Worker But....

I Like A Co-Worker But....

Rediff.com   13 Aug 2025

rediffGURU Kanchan Rai, a relationship coach and founder, Let Us Talk Foundation tells you how to manage your emotions when a workplace relationship turns into something more.

Is Sexless Marriage A Sign Of Failure?

Is Sexless Marriage A Sign Of Failure?

Rediff.com   7 Aug 2025

'Six months of no sexual intimacy, especially when one partner is still trying, is not just a phase to wait out.' 'It's a signal that something deeper may be going on emotionally, physically or relationally with your husband.'

'Chatted With A Guy Online. The Shock? He's My Boss'

'Chatted With A Guy Online. The Shock? He's My Boss'

Rediff.com   25 Jul 2025

rediffGURU Kanchan Rai explains how to deal with an awkward situation and the emotional mess when your secret online relationship unexpectedly collides with your real life.

'In Love With Manager. Should I Quit For Love?'

'In Love With Manager. Should I Quit For Love?'

Rediff.com   18 Jul 2025

rediffGURU Kanchan Rai explains how to deal with conflicting emotions in a relationship with clarity and self-awareness.

'Husband Fights About Money, Food'

'Husband Fights About Money, Food'

Rediff.com   3 Jul 2025

rediffGURU Kanchan Rai, founder of the Let Us Talk Foundation, explains how to deal with a partner who is emotionally insensitive.

'Mother-In-Law Is Trying To Break Our Marriage'

'Mother-In-Law Is Trying To Break Our Marriage'

Rediff.com   23 Jun 2025

Emotional abuse and threats to life or marriage are not only morally wrong, they can be legally challenged, counsels rediffGURU Kanchan Rai.

'He's Married, Won't Leave His Wife. Should I Wait?'

'He's Married, Won't Leave His Wife. Should I Wait?'

Rediff.com   2 Jun 2025

You deserve to be with someone who chooses you fully, without delay or hesitation, advises rediffGURU Kanchan Rai, founder of Let Us Talk Foundation.

Husband Telling You To Quit Studies?

Husband Telling You To Quit Studies?

Rediff.com   9 May 2025

If your husband isn't willing to stand by you during a temporary phase of physical distance while you pursue something valuable, then you're not the one breaking the marriage; he is, says rediffGURU Kanchan Rai, founder, Let Us Talk Foundation.

'Is Your Mother Ignoring You?'

'Is Your Mother Ignoring You?'

Rediff.com   30 Apr 2025

The way others treat you does not define your worth, counsels rediffGURU Kanchan Rai, founder of Let Us Talk Foundation.

How To Handle A Competitive Colleague?

How To Handle A Competitive Colleague?

Rediff.com   17 Apr 2025

rediffGURU Kanchan Rai, founder of the Let Us Talk Foundation, offers career advice on how to deal with a competitive colleague in a professional manner.

'Parents Want Me To Marry; Am Bisexual And Not Ready'

'Parents Want Me To Marry; Am Bisexual And Not Ready'

Rediff.com   4 Apr 2025

Instead of just saying 'I don't want to get married,' try explaining your perspective in a way they can understand, recommends rediffGURU Kanchan Rai.

'My BF Is Accusing Me of Cheating'

'My BF Is Accusing Me of Cheating'

Rediff.com   24 Mar 2025

If your partner keeps doubting you despite your honesty, it means he's not ready to trust you fully, says rediffGURU Kanchan Rai while counselling a young woman accused of infidelity in a long-distance relationship.

Hassled 28 YO: 'Parents Check My Phone'

Hassled 28 YO: 'Parents Check My Phone'

Rediff.com   7 Mar 2025

Stay firm yet respectful, and over time, they will have to adjust, advises rediffGURU Kanchan Rai, founder of the Let Us Talk Foundation.

'Husband Is Caring But Mother-In-Law Is...'

'Husband Is Caring But Mother-In-Law Is...'

Rediff.com   24 Feb 2025

The key is to approach the conversation calmly with your husband, without blaming his mother directly, advises rediffGURU Kanchan Rai.

Divorced Mom of Two: 'Can I Date Again?'

Divorced Mom of Two: 'Can I Date Again?'

Rediff.com   17 Feb 2025

"It is absolutely possible to be in a relationship again," says rediffGURU Kanchan Rai, founder of the Let Us Talk Foundation.

'Help! I Suspect My Husband's Having An Affair'

'Help! I Suspect My Husband's Having An Affair'

Rediff.com   12 Feb 2025

If you suspect infidelity, look for patterns instead of relying solely on your fears, suggests rediffGURU Kanchan Rai, relationship coach and founder of Let Us Talk Foundation.