Love Guru says, Hello, everyone! Welcome back to our weekly Love Guru chat! Let's get starting tackling those tricky affairds of the heart!

bubly asked, hey love guru!!! i m a gal who was in love wit a guy from past 3 years even he loved me too.. but then he got a job in mumbai he left for mumbai last year. i dont know wat happened him but after 8 months he said that he cant marry me but he can have affair with me even if he gets married to someone he also intimate for physical satisfaction but i broke up.. plz advice me have i done right thing.??? but now i dont get such feelings for anyone.even m not interested to get marry too m just 21 yr old. plz advise me wat i need to do??? hope u wil do needful.

Love Guru answers, Hey there. I think you made a very wise decision dumping Mr Non-committal. He had some audacity wanting to keep up an affair with you while marrying someone else. You're very young -- just take life as it comes and enjoy these golden years while you can. When the time is right, you will fall in love again. And what happened with this jerk will end up a very small chapter in your life.

dimple asked, hiii love guru.. i love a guy very much n serious abt him.. he also used to be serious wid me but now he says that he is not that type of guy who can b serious wid only 1 gal.. i know evrything abt his past.. he had many gf with whom he had physical relationship.. he told me evrything true.. he used to say that i m the 1st gal for whom he thought he is serious but now he doesnt.. pls help me..

Love Guru answers, Dimple, this guy you're with can be classified as a 'type' -- when their interest wanes, they move on to the next girl. It's not your problem, it's his. Leave him alone, the more you pursue him the worse he will behave. On the other hand, if you cut him off completely, he may think he's made a mistake and come back if he truly felt anything for you. Play hard to get. And remember, if he doesn't come back you're better off without him.

rahul asked, I loved a girl. she is 2 yrs elder to me. I knew her for 5 years. we were good friends. then when I proposed her, she got angry and then she did not talk to me later. after 15 days her marraige was fixed with other guy. 2 years have passed on. her bday is comming in next few days. shall I wish her? Now i dont love her. but I want to continue the friendship. But I cant understand why she was so rude to me? can u help me in getting girls tendency?

Love Guru answers, Look, even if she wanted to say 'no', she could have said so gently and politely without being so rude to you. That was silly of her. If you like, send her a birthday SMS or something, but I don't know how she will react to it. She may think you're trying to get back with her and ignore it or be rude again. If you think you can get past that and make her understand you'd like to be just friends, then go ahead. But don't make a very big deal out of her. You're not inlove anymore -- at least that's what you're saying -- so it shouldn't bother you too much of she doesn't respond.

Sam asked, Hi I am muslim guy....in love with a hindu girl........we were suppose to inform our parents about us .......recently i lost my dad .......and now i have to take care of my mother.....cant break the news to her about us....whereas the they are forcing her for marriage at her place......i dunno what to do ....guide me please......i love her a lot to give up......my mother is important too......

Love Guru answers, Sam, life doesn't always hand us the opportunities we want on a platter -- sometimes we have to make them. Your girlfriend also has to put her foot down with her family first. And in due time -- maybe a couple of months from now -- you need to explain to your mum that you support her 100 percent but that you've fallen in love with this girl and want to make a life with her. Tell your mum to look beyond the usual Hindu-Muslim situation and tell her that if she gives your girl a chance, she too will grow to love her as you have. I don't know the odds in your favour, but if the two of you are determined to go through with this and old enough to make a decision, go ahead with it.

confusedlover asked, i guru , hwz u doin bro.. am confused, i am in love in 1 grl deeply, frm my heart she loves me tooo.. nd nw the prblm is, i hav 1 of my frnd, she is extremly interested in me, am also lil bit attracted towards her, nd nw we both r thinking of a relationship, nd i knw, she is also so much caring as other one, but i dont knw, wat should i do, " but i knw that both of them will care for me" else anything happens.. so wat to do, plz suggest....

Love Guru answers, Love and attraction are two different things. And two people who love each other should be together. You need to fight attraction to others for the sake of the one you truly love and who loves you back. I think you have your answer?

vijay asked, Hi I am rajput man....in love with a parsee girl........my society ignores that . what can i do

Love Guru answers, Well, let your society ignore it, then. At the end of the day it's your wife you have to live with within the four walls of your home, not society, right? True friends will stand by you and if your family has sense and sees how happy you both are together, they will eventually come around. But let me tell you, both you and this girl will have to work through the cultural differences in your relationship. Binding each other down by your own traditions will make both of you unhappy. So embrace each other's personality and background as it is and be happy.

Bharat asked, I am in lv with my sister-in-law but I also love my wife very much, what to do

Love Guru answers, Bharat, don't throw away your marriage if you love your wife. And the term 'sister-in-law' implies that you have to treat her as your sister and nothing else, even if you're not related by blood. Because you are now related through your wife. Do the right thing. Remain fully committed to your marriage.

subhash asked, hi love guru....i m guy 22 old years & i like a 1 gal last 2 weeks & i m friendship proposed a gal but answer in no. gal nature is simple & smart current study in collage 11th i am confused pls suggest

Love Guru answers, Two weeks of knowing a person is too soon to propose! And even a proposal of friendship by a stranger won't usually be accepted, because women are pretty smart, you know -- she probably guessed why you were so interested in being friends! Plus she seems too young for you -- she's 16 or 17 and you're 22.

pratmit asked, hi love guru i never fall in true love...so wat might be d reason for this strange behaviour..i had relationship with many gals but no true love

Love Guru answers, It's not strange at all, you just haven't met the right person yet. Wait it out, let life bring her to you instead of actively looking out. When instead of getting bored of a girl you become more attached to her as time passes, you'll know that's love.

sanjana asked, hi i am sanjana. i loved one person. he likes me but dont get marry with me. what i want to do? but i want him only not other guy. please give me proper sollution

Love Guru answers, Sanjana, you can't always get exactly what you want in life. Why is he not committing if he likes you? And what is the point of being in a relationship where someone is forced to be with you? I'm sorry, but this does not seem like the ideal relationship for you even if you want it as badly as you do. Try cutting him out of your life. If it makes a difference to him, he will want to be with you. If he doesn't, that means he didn't much care for you in the first place and believe me, you don't want to be caught up in a situation where your partner doesn't care about you.

anil asked, hi lov guru i lov 1girl 4m last three yrs bt iam sacred to prpose her.I think if i vl prpose her may b i loose my frdship & v share each & every thing plz tell me lov guru wht il do

Love Guru answers, You'll never know if you never try. I've given the same advice hundreds of times before -- tell her sensibly that you have feelings for her without being overly dramatic. Also assure her that you will put those feelings aside and prefer to remain friends if she doesn't feel the same way. But get your act together and tell her soon! Good luck!

Also see: 'Handicapped and desperately in love'