Cuffing To Love Bombing: How Gen Z Dates

If you are confused about how Gen Z or digital natives or Zoomers (born between 1997 to 2012) look at relationships, here's help. 

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Hooking up
One-time sexual encounter. Zero commitment. Think casual meet-up, not relationship material.

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FWB
Friends With Benefits. Physical intimacy without the dating drama. No strings. Just fun.

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Situationship
More than friends, less than dating. You're emotionally involved but nobody's putting a label on it.

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Cuffing
It's a seasonal thing where you get hooked only for say Valentine's week. So that you don't feel FOMO. You know -- the Fear Of Missing Out.

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Love Bombing
Showering you with excessive flattery and attention to manipulate you into a relationship. If it feels too good to be true, it probably is.

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Bread Crumbing
It's sweet things one day, then a no-show for weeks. They give you just enough attention to keep you hooked, never enough to commit.

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Benching
You're their backup option. Like companies that hire but keep you waiting for an actual role. Zero commitment, maximum convenience. For them.

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Cookie Jarring
It's somewhat like benching. You're literally a backup cookie in their relationship jar.

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Cushioning
Another backup plan. Keeping multiple romantic options warm while in your main relationship, just in case things go south.

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Ghosting
When your date suddenly vanishes. No calls, no texts, no explanation. Just... poof! They might even block you on social media, leaving you wondering, 'Kya hua?'

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Orbiting
They cut off direct contact but still like your posts and watch your stories. Digital lurking without commitment.

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Pocketing
They keep you hidden from friends and family; you're not part of their real life.

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Soft Launching
Subtly revealing your relationship on social media. Think mysterious hand-holding photos where you can't see faces.

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Serious relationship
The real deal: Commitment, shared goals, trust and actual plans for the future.

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