'If strength had a face, it would look a lot like you; quiet, unassuming, definitely underappreciated but still smiling and making sure everyone else is okay first.'
Jaideep Barve tells us exactly why his mother Ulka Barve is such a special woman.
We'd love to know about your mother too. What makes her truly special? What's that one memory that captures her spirit, her strength or even her quirks?
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Dear Aai,
While I am wishing you Happy Mother's Day! I feel why just this day shouldn't we celebrate all days for you?
Raising three children as diverse as we were, I feel you should have got an award... not for raising but for surviving us, especially me and my younger brother Chandan.
Thanks for instilling not just love and warmth but also values in the three of us. You ensured we were groomed well. The importance of education was ingrained in all of us since our childhood and it is no surprise that all three of us excelled in academics.
While growing up, I didn't always understand why you were so strict about 'doing the right thing'. Now I realise that you weren't just raising your children, you were shaping better persons.
Your quiet demeanour often concealed the sacrifices you never spoke about; I now realise how much strength you showed even when things weren't easy.
If strength had a face, it would look a lot like you; quiet, unassuming, definitely underappreciated but still smiling and making sure everyone else is okay first.
You were our first guru, our perennial alarm clock, our personal chef, mentor, bodyguard and also sometimes our biggest critic.
The foundation for our love for food can very well be traced to your awesome cooking skills, which continue to amaze me till date.
We may joke about your lectures, your strict behaviour but, honestly, they built us.
As we look back, what has not changed till date is your warmth and care. You still remain awake till we reach home; you still ensure we eat well; you still reprimand us whenever we err.
Today, we just want you to rest (yes, actually rest!) and enjoy your life. Travel the world, read a lot, listen to music, watch dramas and movies, meet your friends and cousins.
Aai, have a rocking life ahead!
From Jaideep (with my siblings, Amrita and Chandan in tow)
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