rdÓ : fpS>¡i
E-mail : rajesh_ruparel@hotmail.com

lpgdp„ dpZkp¡_p¡ õhcph õhp\} b_u Nep¡ R>¡ A¡hy„ h^pf¡ L¡$d gpN¡ R>¡? L$rmeyN A¡ Ap_y„ _pd?

• NyZh„s ipl : sd¡ gMp¡ R>p¡ L$¡$ "lpg dpZkp¡_p õhcph õhp\} b_u Nep R>¡.' Ap rh^p_dp„ sd¡ "lpg' iåv$ hp`ep£ s¡_u kpd¡ dpf¡ kMs hp„^p¡ R>¡. dp_h_p¡ õhcph, A¡ `¡v$p \ep¡ s¡ qv$hk\u õhp\} füp¡ R>¡. L$rmeyN S>¡hp¡ î¡›$ eyN `l¡gp„ L$v$u lsp¡ _l]. ApS>¡ s` L$fhp_p Ny_p l¡W$m L$p¡C v$rgs i„b|L$_p¡ h^ _ \C iL¡$. ApS>¡ L$p¡C Öp¡Z v$rgs A¡L$gìe_p¡ A„N|W$p¡ Nyfyv$rnZpdp„ _ dpNu iL¡$. ApS>¡ fpÄekcpdp„ L$p¡C Öp¥`v$u_p h÷lfZ_u _p¡bs _ Aphu iL¡$. ApS>¡ `l¡gp„_u kv$uAp¡ S>¡hu Adp_hue Aõ`©íesp flu _\u. V|„$L$dp„ `l¡gp„ b^y„ kpfy„ lsy„ A_¡ ApS>¡ b^y„ bNX$hp b¡Wy„$ R>¡ A¡hp¡ c°d d_dp„\u _uL$mu S>hp¡ Å¡CA¡. L$rmeyN rkhpe ApNm_p L$p¡C eyNdp„ dp_hAr^L$pfp¡_p S>s__u hps \C _\u. N¡rgrgep¡A¡ rhop__¡ klpf¡ Sy>v$u hps L$fu Ðepf¡ QQ®_u dpau dpNhu `X¡$gu A_¡ A¡ rhop_u_¡ ãgp¡f¡Þkdp„ afrS>eps`Z¡ bpL$u_y„ Æh_ Npmhy„ `X¡$gy„. ApS>¡ h¡qV$L$__p `p¡` N¡rgrgep¡_u Ål¡fdp„ dpau dpNu iL¡$ R>¡. Ap bpbs tlvy$-dy[õgdp¡A¡ kdS>hp S>¡hu R>¡.

  L$rmeyNdp„ rhop_ A_¡ V¡$¼_p¡gp¡Æ_p¡ rhL$pk \ep¡ s¡ sp¡ Mfy„ S>, `f„sy V¡$¼_p¡gp¡Æ_p n¡Ó¡ S>¡ L„$C âpàs \ey„ s¡ R>¡L$ R>¡hpX¡$ `X¡$gp dpZk ky^u `lp¢Qu füy„ R>¡. dprlsu_u ¾$p„rsdp„\u Nfubp¡ bpL$ps _\u. W¡$f W¡$f "A¡k.V$u.X$u.`u.ku.Ap¡.'_u _p_u _p_u Ap¡fX$uAp¡dp„ vy$r_ep_¡ buS>¡ R>¡X¡$ `lp¢Qhp_u kNhX$ R>¡. A¡ S> fus¡ kpebf L$pa¡ NpdX¡$ `lp¢Qu Nep„ R>¡. kpebf L$pa¡ A¡V$g¡ iy„? A¡ A¡L$ A¡hu S>Áep R>¡, Äep„ âh¡iu_¡ L$p¡C `Z dpZk v$k ê$r`epdp„ rnrsS>_p¡ QL$fphp¡ dpfu iL¡$ R>¡. L$l¡hpsp L$rmeyN_p v$p¡jp¡ Ap¡R>p _\u, `f„sy ApNm_u kv$uAp¡_u kfMpdZudp„ sp¡ A¡_u M|buAp¡ OZu R>¡. L$rmeyN_p¡ L„$Npmdp„ L„$Npm Apv$du `Z rhðdp_yj R>¡. Nfubu_y„ Apeyóe Ap`Z¡ dp_uA¡ A¡V$gy„ gp„by„ _\u. õhp\} b__pf¡ lh¡ `p¡sp_p¡ õhp\® i¡dp„ fl¡gp¡ R>¡ s¡ kdS>hp_y„ R>¡. lz„ sp¡ BÃRy>„ Ry>„ L¡$ vy$r_ep_p¡ âÐe¡L$ dpZk "õhp\}' b_u fl¡.

  ApS>¡ vy$r_ep_¡ `fdp\®_u rbgLy$g S>ê$f _\u. ApS>¡ "âbyÙ õhp\®' (enlightened self-interest)_u spsu S>ê$f R>¡. L$p¡C L$l¡hpsp¡ "õhp\}' dpZk DÅZudp„ b¡ gpXy$_u S>ÁepA¡ Qpf gpXy$ Tp`V$u Åe sp¡ iy„ s¡ dpZk_¡ "õhp\}' L$l¡hp_y„ ep¡Áe R>¡? A¡ dpZk¡ sp¡ `p¡sp_u srbes_y„ brgv$p_ Ap`u_¡ b¡ gpXy$ h^pf¡ Mp^p! S>¡ rbëX$f Nd¡ s¡ rlkpb¡ AY$mL$ _pZp„ A¡L$W$p„ L$f¡ s¡_¡ sd¡ "õhp\}' L$l¡ip¡? A¡_¡ lz„ sp¡ dlpd|M® L$lz„. A¡ `pNg d__u ip„rs, õhõ\sp A_¡ kyMpL$pfu_¡ cp¡N¡ `p¡s¡ Æh_ v$fçep_ MQ} _ iL¡$ A¡V$gp ê$r`ep A¡L$W$p L$fu füp¡ R>¡. A¡ v$e_ue R>¡. "õhp\}' _\u. dpfu dpÞesp dyS>b ^d®_y„ Mfy„ L$pd dpZk_¡ `fdp\} b_phhp_y„ _\u. kpQp¡ ^d® dpZk_¡ "õhp\®' A¡V$g¡ iy„ s¡ kdÅh¡ sp¡ bk R>¡. "õh' _p¡ "A\®' kdÄep hNf õhp\® (õh+A\®) iy„ s¡ _ kdÅe. vy$r_ep "õhp\}' b_u Åe s¡ qv$hk_u Ap`Z¡ fpl Å¡CA¡.

rdÓ : sÞde hp¡fp
E-mail : tnvora@yahoo.com

OZu hMs A„N°¡Æ A_¡ NyS>fpsudp„ rhQpfp¡_¡ âNV$ L$fhp_u L$p¡rii L$ep® bpv$ A¡L$ hõsy kdÅe R>¡ L¡$, "NyZh„s ipl \hy„ kl¡gy„ _\u.' dpÓ cpjp `f_p âcyÐh\u g¡ML$ _\u \hpsy„. g¡ML$ \hp dpV¡$ kp¥\u dlÒh_u hõsy R>¡ A¡L$ rhQpfh„s dNS>. dpf¡ A¡V$gy„ S> ÅZhy„ R>¡ L¡$ dNS>dp„ Aph¡gp A¡L$ rhQpf_¡ iåv$p¡dp„ L¡$hu fus¡ d|L$hp¡¡?

• NyZh„s ipl : sdpfu hps rbgLy$g Mp¡V$u R>¡. NyZh„s ipl \hy„ kl¡gy„ _\u A¡d _ L$lp¡, sÞde \hy„ `Z kl¡gy„ _\u A¡ ÅZu gp¡. sÞde lp¡e s¡ sÞde S> b_¡ s¡ S>ê$fu R>¡. sÞde NyZh„s ipl b_¡ sp¡ s¡ Ap`Ops NZpe. cNhp__p v$fbpfdp„ d©Ðey `R>u dpZk_¡ lpS>f L$fhpdp„ Aph¡ Ðepf¡ cNhp_ A¡hy„ _l] `|R>¡ L¡$ sy„ dlpÐdp L¡$d _ bÞep¡? cNhp_ A¡V$gy„ S> `|R>¡ L¡$ sy„, sy„ L¡$d _ bÞep¡? rhQpfp¡ dNS>dp„ _l], d_dp„ EN¡ R>¡. A¡ rhQpf_¡ iåv$p¡dp„ Y$pmhp_u L$mp b^p `pk¡ _\u lp¡su. v$f¡L$ Apv$du `pk¡ L$iy„L$ A¡hy„ lp¡e R>¡ S>¡ buÅAp¡ L$fsp„ _p¡My„-A_p¡My„ lp¡e R>¡. A¡ "L$iy„L$' ip¡^u L$pY$hy„ A¡ M|b dlÒh_y„ R>¡. `p¡sp_¡ dm¡gp Mpk hfv$p_ kp\¡ "sÞde' \hy„, A¡ OV$_p_¡ Ab°pld â¡õgp¡ ApÐd-AprhóL$pf (self-actualisation) L$l¡ R>¡. buÅ¡ dpZk Ap bpbs¡ kph _L$pdp¡ NZpe. s¡\u T¹ep„ `p¡g kpÓ£ L$üy„, "_fL$ A¡V$g¡ buÅ¡ dpZk'. sdpfy„ _fL$ A¡V$g¡ NyZh„s ipl. sd¡ sdpfu cusf `X¡$gu L$p¡C rhriô$sp kp\¡ A¡L$pL$pf b_p¡ s¡ S> Mfu âpràs R>¡. Ap rhriô$sp sdpf¡ bv$g¡ buSy>„ L$p¡C _ ip¡^u iL¡$. sdpf¡ bv$g¡ L$p¡C buSy>„ dfu iL¡$ Mfy„? sp¡ `R>u sdpf¡ bv$g¡ buSy>„ L$p¡C Æhu `Z _ iL¡$. dpZk `p¡sp_p "kNp Æh_'\u `fpep¡ flu Åe s¡hu OV$_p_¡ "A^d®' L$l¡hp_p¡ Ap`Z¡ Ðep„ qfhpS> _\u.

rdÓ : qv$gu` `V¡$g
E-mail : sspr@bom8.vsnl.net.in

NyZh„scpC, qv$gu` fpZ`yfp S>¡ S>¥_ dyr__¡ âZpd L$f¡ s¡ kpQp A_¡ Ad¡ dp¡fprfbp`y_¡ âZpd L$fuA¡ s¡ Mp¡V$p? lz„ dp¡fpqfbp`y_p¡ L$Ë$f ApriL$ _\u `Z A¡d_u hpZu, âh©rÑ d_¡ Nd¡ R>¡. A¡d_pdp„ `Z dp_hklS> v$p¡j li¡ sp¡ A¡d_p âv$p_ kpd¡ Ap`Z¡ \p¡Xy„$ Y$ugy„ _ d|L$u iL$uA¡?

dp¡fpqfbp`y Y$p¢Nu lp¡e sp¡ s¡ b¡iL$ blpf gphhy„ Å¡CA¡. dp¡fpqfbp`y_u ApV$gu R>uR>fu V$uL$p \pe s¡ hpS>bu R>¡? Å¡ hpS>bu lp¡e sp¡ qv$gu` fpZ`yfp_u afS> _\u L¡$ S>¥_ dyr_, `pv$fu, dp¥ghuAp¡_p„ L$fs|sp¡ R>sp„ L$f¡? qv$gu` fpZ`yfp L$p¡CL$ dyr__¡ âZpd L$f¡ R>¡ L¡$ dp_¡ R>¡ sp¡ Ad¡ dp_u iL$uA¡ L¡$ s¡Ap¡ `Z Adpfu `„Ns_p S> R>¡? L¡$ `R>u `[ågrkV$u õV„$V$ L¡$ A„Ns hp„^p¡? fpd ÅZ¡ iy„ li¡, `Z gpN¡ R>¡ L¡$ vy$:M¡ R>¡ `¡V$ _¡ L|$V¡$ R>¡ dp\y„.

• NyZh„s ipl : sdpfp âï_dp„ fl¡gp v$v®$_¡ lz„ kdÆ iLy„$ Ry>„. qv$gu` fpZ`yfp Ap`Zp gpX$L$p _hgL$\pL$pf R>¡. A¡d_¡ A¡d_p rhQpfp¡ âNV$ L$fhp_p¡ lL$ R>¡. sd¡ L$lp¡ L¡$ sd¡ dp¡fpqfbp`y_p "L$Ë$f ApriL$' _\u. sd¡ lp¡ sp¡e s¡dp„ L$iy„e Mp¡Vy„$ _\u. qv$gu`cpC_¡ S>¡ âï_ `|R>hp¡ Å¡CA¡ s¡ sd¡ d_¡ `|R>p¡ R>p¡. lz„ dpfp rhQpfp¡ S>Zphu iLy„$, qv$gu`cpC_¡ bv$g¡ S>hpb _ Ap`u iLy„$.

  dpfp rhQpfp¡ dpfu `pk¡ füp, `Z s¡ hl¢Qhp_p¡ Ar^L$pf lz„ cp¡Nhu füp¡ Ry>„. dp¡fpqfbp`y_p âv$p__¡ sdpfu dpaL$ lz„ M|b S> KQy„ NÏ„ Ry>„. A¡dZ¡ Ak„¿e fpdL$\pAp¡ Üpfp gp¡L$rinZ_y„ S>¡ rhfpV$ L$pe® L$ey¯ s¡_p¡ lz„ âi„kL$ Ry>„. Ad¡ b„_¡ rdÓp¡ R>uA¡, A¡L$buÅ_p¡ Apv$f L$fuA¡ R>uA¡. Ap`Z¡ L$p¡C dpZk S>fpL$ ÅZusp¡ L¡$ dp¡V$p¡ b_u fl¡ Ðepf¡ s¡_u `pk¡\u Y$Ngpb„^ A`¡npAp¡ fpMhp V¡$hpep R>uA¡. iy„ dp¡fpqfbp`y_p¡ S>Þd Ap`Zp kp¥_u A`¡npAp¡ `|fu L$fhp dpV¡$ \ep¡ R>¡? d¢ A_¡L$ hpf dp¡fpqfbp`y A„N¡ gMu_¡ ¼epf¡L$ AdyL$ A`¡np gp¡L$p¡ fpM¡ s¡hu hpsp¡ L$fu R>¡. Å¡ d_¡ A¡ lL$ lp¡e sp¡ dpf¡ dpV¡$ L¡$V$guL$ A`¡npAp¡ A„N¡ hps L$fhp_p¡ A¡d_p¡ Ar^L$pf Mfp¡ L¡$ _l]?

  A`¡np L$p¡Z fpM¡ R>¡ s¡ âï_ ANÐe_p¡ R>¡. S>¡Ap¡ blz dp¡V$u A`¡np Ecu L$f¡ R>¡, s¡d_¡ gp¡L$p¡ M|b `S>h¡ R>¡. sdpfp âï_dp„ \p¡X$p¡L$ DíL¡$fpV$ `Z S>Zpe R>¡. Ap`Z¡ S>¡ ìe[¼s_¡ îÙ¡e NZuA¡ s¡_¡ buÅAp¡ îÙ¡e _ NZ¡ A_¡ Å¡ V$uL$p L$f¡ sp¡ s¡ A¡d_p¡ Ar^L$pf R>¡. Å¡ d_¡ Np„^uÆ âÐe¡ KX$u îÙp lp¡e sp¡ A¡d_u t_v$p L$p¡C buSy>„ L$f¡ sp¡e dpf¡ Mg¡g `pX$hp_u iu S>ê$f? Np„^uÆ âÐe¡_u îÙp A¡V$gu R>uR>fu ip dpV¡ fpMhu? X$p¡. Ap„b¡X$L$f_p A_yepeuAp¡ Ap„b¡X$L$f A„N¡ gMpe¡gy„ L$iy„e kl_ L$fu _ iL¡$. Aphy„ ip dpV¡$? sd¡ S>¡_¡ `fd îÙ¡e NZp¡ s¡_¡ buÅ `Z îÙ¡e NZ¡ A¡hy„ ip dpV¡$? sdpfu îÙp sdpfu dprgL$u_u R>¡. AÞe_u AîÙp A¡d_u dprgL$u_u R>¡. tlkp _ \pe Ðep„ ky^u Arcâpep¡ cg¡ dy¼s`Z¡ âNV$ \pe. gp¡L$s„Ó_p¡ Aphp¡ rdÅS> lh¡ ^d®dp„ `Z âh¡i¡ s¡ S>ê$fu R>¡. dp¡fpqfbp`y õhõ\ R>¡ A_¡ KQp NÅ_p gifted L$\pL$pf R>¡. A¡d_u kp\¡_p A_yepeuAp¡_¡ ìe[¼s`|Å_p¡ fp¡N gpNy `X¡$gp¡ R>¡. Ap`Zu âÅ L$p¡C `Z dp¡V$p dpZk_¡ "dpZk' sfuL¡$ Æhhp_u R|>V$ _\u Ap`su. dp¡fpqfbp`y "dpZk' R>¡ A_¡ s¡d_¡ "dpZk' sfuL¡$ Æhhp v¡$hp Å¡CA¡. A¡d_¡ gNcN "fpd' b_phu v¡$hp, A¡dp„ dpZk dp¡fpqfbp`y_y„ A`dp_ R>¡. A_yepeuAp¡_¡ ìe[¼s`|Å L$ep® hNf Q¡_ `X¡$ Mfy„? dpfp A_ych¡ L$lz„ Ry>„ L¡$ dp¡fpqfbp`y Ap bpbs¡ ÅN°s R>¡. dpÓ kde_p¡ khpg R>¡. d_¡ A¡d_p A„^îÙpmy A_yepeuAp¡_u byqÙ dpV¡$ TpTp¡ Apv$f _\u. d_¡ Np„^u âÐe¡ Apv$f OZp¡, `f„sy Np„^uhpv$uAp¡ âÐe¡ Mpk Apv$f _\u. A`hpv$p¡ Mfp, `Z A`hpv$_y„ L$pd S> A¡ R>¡ L¡$ r_ed_¡ V¡$L$p¡ Ap`hp¡. A¡ S> fus¡ d_¡ L$pg® dp¼k® âÐe¡ OZp¡ Apv$f R>¡, `f„sy dp¼k®hpv$uAp¡_¡ lz„ S>X$sp_p ApiL$p¡ NÏ„ Ry>„. Äep„ L„$W$ubÙsp lp¡e R>¡ Ðep„\u rhQpf Ecu `„|R>X$uA¡ cpNu R|>V¡$ R>¡. ApS>L$pg ^d® A_¡ rhQpf hÃQ¡ R|>V$pR>¡X$p \C Nep R>¡. qv$gu`cpC, sd¡ A¡ vy$O®V$_p\u bQu Åh s¡hu iyc¡ÃR>p.

rdÓ : vu$_yÆ
E-mail : shethji@rediff.com

ApS>¡ `„v$fdu Ap¡NõV$ Ap`Zp¡ õhps„Ôe qv$_! `3 hj® `R>u Ap`Z¡ ¼ep„ R>uA¡? dlpÐdp Np„^uÆ A_¡ s¡d_p Np„^uhpv$_u ApS>¡ qL„$ds A_¡ s¡_u D`ep¡rNsp L¡$V$gu?

• NyZh„s ipl : `„v$fdu Ap¡NõV$ L¡$g¡ÞX$fdp„ gpg Anf¡ v$ip®hpsp¡ b¢L$ lp¡qgX¡$ b_u NC R>¡. Ap`Z¡ ¼ep„ R>uA¡, A¡d sd¡ `|R>p¡ R>p¡. Ap`Z¡ fpô²$ue rdÕeprcdp__u DS>hZu L$fuA¡ R>uA¡. `rss âÅ_p„ b^p„ S> gnZp¡ âNV$ \C füp„ R>uA¡. "kpf¡ S>lp„ k¡ AÃR>p rl„v$p¡õsp„ ldpfp' Nus Nphp_u tlds ¼ep„\u gphhu? Np„^uÆ _\u, `Z Np„^urhQpf Æh„s R>¡. rhQpf L$v$u A_yepeuAp¡_p¡ Ap¡riepmp¡ lp¡sp¡ _\u. v$pv$p ^dp®r^L$pfu L$l¡sp L¡$ rhQpf A`p¥fyj¡e R>¡. Np„^uÆ L$p¡C rhQpf Ap`¡ `R>u s¡ Np„^uÆ_u dprgL$u_p¡ fl¡sp¡ _\u. Np„^u_¡ kdS>hp_u Qphu, Np„^uhpv$uAp¡_¡ bpSy>A¡ fpMu_¡ ku^p Np„^uÆ ky^u `lp¡„Qhpdp„ fl¡gu R>¡. L©$óZ_¡ L$l¡hpsp L©$óZc¼sp¡_p dpÝed\u kdS>hpdp„ Å¡Md R>¡. lh¡guAp¡dp„ L©$óZ_¡ ip¡^hp_u S>ê$f _\u. `„v$fdu Ap¡NõV¡$ A¡L$ S> L$pd L$fhy„ füy„. Å¡ cpfs dp¡V$p¡ v¡$i lp¡e A_¡ Å¡ cpfsdpsp dpfu dpsp lp¡e sp¡ lz„ A¡hy„ L$p¡C L$pd _ L$fu iLy„$ S>¡dp„ dpsp_p¡ Öp¡l \pe. "cpfsdpsp_u S>e' bp¡ghp_y„ dp_uA¡ s¡V$gy„ kl¡gy„ _\u. v¡$i_p gp¡L$p¡dp„ d_¡ sp¡ îÙp R>¡, `Z fpS>L$pfZuAp¡dp„ _\u. L$pfrNg_p dp¡fQ¡ d©Ðey_¡ hf¡gp S>hp__u ilpv$s A¡m¡ Åe A¡hy„ OÏ„ b^y„ Ap`Z¡ L$fu füp R>uA¡. ifd_p¡ vy$L$pm `X$ép¡ R>¡.

rdÓ : r_rMg cË$
E-mail : nikhil_bhatt2001@yahoo.com

lz„ OZp hMs\u sdpfp„ g¡Mp¡ A_¡ `yõsL$p¡ hp„Qy„ Ry>„, `Z d_¡ gpN¡ R>¡ L¡$ ApS>L$pg ¾$p„rs_u cpjp qv$hk¡ _¡ qv$hk¡ OV$su Åe R>¡. A¡_p rhi¡ h^y L$l¡ip¡?

• NyZh„s ipl : sd¡ ¾$p„rsL$pfu rhQpfp¡ âNV$ L$fsu cpjp dp¡mu `X$su Åe s¡_u hps L$fu R>¡. sdpfu hpsdp„ L$p¡C L$`V$ _\u. S>¡ gpÁey„ s¡ g¿ey„ R>¡. d_¡ Aphu kùv$e V$L$p¡f Ndu NC R>¡. lh¡ bQph L$fy„? lz„ hmu ¾$p„rsL$pfu ¼epf_p¡? DN° cpjpdp„ L$iy„L$ gMhp\u L$p¡C ¾$p„rsL$pfu _\u b_sy„.

  dpf¡ d_ ¾$p„rs A¡V$g¡ S> rhQpf¾$p„rs. A¡_y„ agL$ _p_y„ lp¡e L¡$ dp¡Vy„$ lp¡e, s¡\u L$p¡C afL$ _\u `X$sp¡. A¡L$ _hep¥h_p v$l¡S> dpN_pf eyhL$_p„ dpsr`sp_¡ "_p' `fMph¡ s¡ ¾$p„rsL$pfu NZpe. A¡ eyhsu g¡Mp¡ _ gM¡ sp¡e ¾$p„rsL$pfu NZpe. ¼epf¡L$ DN°sp L¡$ L$X$L$ cpjp ¾$p„rsdp„ M`u Åe R>¡. huf _d®v$ ¾$p„rs "Æìep' lsp. fpd¡ kusp_p¡ ÐepN L$ep£ `R>u hrk›$_u `Ð_u Afy„^suA¡ Ål¡f L$f¡gy„ L¡$ kusp hNf_u Aep¡Ýepdp„ `p¡s¡ `N _l] d|L¡$. Aphy„ L$l¡hpdp„ ¾$p„rs_p¡ S>eOp¡j lsp¡. ¾$p„rs d|m¡ Æh_d|gL$ OV$_p R>¡, cpjpd|gL$ _l]. sd¡ d_¡ Ad\p¡ ¾$p„rs kp\¡ Å¡X$u v$u^p¡. dpfu A¡ `pÓsp ¼ep„\u? lp, ¾$p„rs Äepf¡ â¡d_p n¡Ódp„ \pe Ðepf¡ cpjpdp„ `Z dp^ye®¾$p„rs `°NV$ \pe A¡d b_¡. lz„ ¾$p„rsL$pfu _\u, `f„sy "â¡d¾$p„rs'_p¡ V$`pgu Mfp¡. V$`pgu buÅAp¡_u V$`pg gph¡ R>¡. A¡ L$v$u `p¡sp_p¡ `Ó sd_¡ _\u `lp¢QpX$sp¡. ldpg L$v$u `p¡sp_p¡ kpdp_ dp\¡ _\u D`pX$sp¡. \p¡X$pL$ rhQpfp¡ hl¢Qhp rkhpe dpf¡ buÅ¡ L$p¡C L$pd^„^p¡ _\u.

rdÓ : cfs Dv¡$iu
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râe NyZh„scpC, k¡¼k k„b„^u sdpfp rhQpfp¡\u `qfrQs Ry>„. `qòd_p kdpS>dp„ `Z k¡¼k A¡L$ 'tabboo' NZpe R>¡. k¡¼k_y„ Np¥fh S>mhpe A_¡ s¡ âÐe¡ L$p¡C `Z âL$pf_u N¡fkdS> _ fl¡ s¡ dpV¡$ L$ep âL$pf_y„ hgZ S>ê$fu R>¡?

• NyZh„s ipl : k¡¼k A„N¡_p dpfp rhQpfp¡ sd¡ ÅZp¡ R>p¡ s¡\u h^pf¡ sp¡ iy„ L$lz„? `qòddp„ `Z k¡¼k_u kdS>Z_p¡ Acph R>¡. dpf¡ S>fp Sy>v$u hps L$fhu R>¡. `qòd k¡¼k_p Arsf¡L$p¡\u `uX$pe R>¡. `|h® k¡¼k_u As©ràs\u `uX$pe R>¡. over-indulgance A_¡ deprivation, b„_¡ bpbsp¡ Msf_pL$ R>¡. k¡¼k_¡ lz„ `rhÓ bpbs NÏ„ Ry>„, s¡\u ApMu hps bv$gpC Åe R>¡. k¡¼k Å¡ dps©Ðh_u `|h®ifs lp¡e sp¡ s¡ dps©Ðh_p kpdp `ëgpdp„ b¡ku iL¡$ A¡V$gu `rhÓ bpbs lp¡hu S> Å¡CA¡. k¡¼k ^d®rhfp¡^u bpbs _\u. N„Np âv|$rjs \pe s¡dp„ N„Np_p¡ ip¡ hp„L$? Ad¡qfL$p AÐepf¡ ìe[¼s-õhps„Ôe_p A_¡ Arcìe[¼s-õhps„Ôe_p Arsf¡L$p¡dp„ fpQ¡ R>¡. Ap`Z¡ BÃR>uA¡ sp¡e vy$r_ep A¡dp„\u bQhp_u _\u. dp_hAr^L$pfp¡ `Z A¡åkp¡ëeyV$ _\u lp¡sp s¡hu hps _p¡b¡g `pqfsp¡rjL$ rhS>¡sp AdÐe® k¡_¡ Nep drl_¡ qv$ëludp„ L$fu R>¡. Nygpb_p¡ õhuL$pf L$f_pf¡ Nygpb_p R>p¡X$_p¡ õhuL$pf L$fhp¡ S> füp¡. lh¡ N¡fkdS> _ fl¡ s¡hp hgZ_u hps `f Aphy„? _hu kv$udp„ k¡¼k-rhõap¡V$ (sexplosion) \pe s¡hp„ b^p„ S> gnZp¡ AÐepf¡ S> âNV$ \C füp„ R>¡. S>¡ b_¡ s¡ b^y„ kpfy„ _ lp¡e sp¡e s¡ V$pmu iL$php_y„ _\u. Of¡ Of¡ ^fsuL„$` kÅ®hp_p R>¡. S>s_ L$fu_¡ Åmh¡gp„ d|ëep¡_p¡ c„Npf lp\dp„ _ Aph¡ A¡hu `qf[õ\rs kÅ®hp_u R>¡. Opk_u N„Ædp„ ApN gpN¡ Ðepf¡ S>¡V$gp `|mp bQphpe s¡V$gp bQphu g¡hp_u Ap hps R>¡. Af¡! b„bpMp_pdp„ S> ApN gpN¡ s¡hy„ b_i¡. Ap b^y„ _ V$m¡ s¡hy„ lp¡e sp¡ L$fhy„ iy„? L$rmeyN_¡ v$p¡j v$u^p hNf ApV$gu bpbs¡ ey.A¡_.Ap¡. S>¡hu k„õ\p A¡L$hukdu kv$u dpV¡$ k¡¼k-QpV®$f âNV$ L$fu iL¡$ A¡dp„ L¡$V$guL$ `pep_u hpsp¡dp„ kh®k„drs lp¡e sp¡ vy$r_ep_p kæe kdpÅ¡dp„ s¡_p¡ õhuL$pf \C iL¡$. \p¡X$p„L$ N©lusp¡ (fundamental assumptions/ rights/ responsibilities/ value-based expectations) h¥rðL$ L$npA¡ õhuL$pf `pd¡ s¡hy„ kfL$pfp¡_u dv$v$\u \hy„ Å¡CA¡.

  d_¡ S>¡ N©lusp¡ S>X$ép„ R>¡ s¡ Al] âNV$ L$fy„? lh¡ kp„cmp¡.

  1. âpBhku_p¡ Apv$f L$fhp_u AphíeL$sp (fpBV$ Vy$ âpBhku).
  
  
  2. b¡ ìe[¼sAp¡ (persons) hÃQ¡_p k„b„^dp„ L$p¡C A¡L$ hp„^p¡ _ DW$ph¡ Ðep„ ky^u AÞe gp¡L$p¡ dp\y„ _ dpf¡ (right to friendship).
  
  
  3. gÁ_k„b„^_p¡ Apv$f \pe `f„sy fpÄe (state) A¡_p\u AgN \C Åe. b¡ S>Zp„ (÷u-`yfyj) L¡$ b¡ kÅsue rdÓp¡ `fZu_¡ kp\¡ fl¡ L¡$ `fÎep hNf Of dp„X¡$ sp¡ fpÄe A¡dp„ hÃQ¡ _ `X¡$. b^p S> ^d®_p gÁ_k„b„^ L¡$ R|>V$pR>¡X$p A„N¡_p 'personal laws' hpku \C Nep R>¡. A¡L$hukdu kv$udp„ s¡Ap¡ L$Qfp_u V$p¡`gudp„ S> lp¡hp_p.
  
  
  4. â¡d L$fhp_p¡ Ar^L$pf (right to love), Äep„ ky^u AÞe _pNqfL$_p õhps„Ôe `f sfp` _ dpf¡ Ðep„ ky^u S> Abpr^s fl¡.
  
  
  5. k„sp_p¡_u S>hpbv$pfu frS>õV$f \e¡gp„ bpep¡gp¡rS>L$g dpsr`sp_¡ dp\¡ fl¡. gÁ_ frS>õV$f \pe s¡d dps©Ðh-r`s©Ðh `Z frS>õV$f \C iL¡$. gÁ__y„ frS>õV¡²¡$i_ afrS>eps _ lp¡e `Z dpsr`sp_y„ frS>õV²¡$i_ afrS>eps lp¡e.
  
  
  6. R|>V$pR>¡X$p kfm lp¡e. b„_¡_u k„drs lp¡e A¡hp R|>V$pR>¡X$p_u rhr^ A¡L$ S> L$gpL$ g¡_pfu lp¡e. afu `fZhp_u R| V$$ lp¡e.
  
  
  7. kh®Ó â¡d_¡ ^d®_p¡ v$fÄÅ¡ dm¡.
  cfscpC, dpfu hps lÆ `|fu _\u \C. A¡ Ðepf¡ S> `|fu \pe Äepf¡ rhðdp„ Ap`Zu L$ë`_p_y„ â¡dfpÄe õ\`pe. Ap`Z¡ Ðep„ ky^u _\u \p¡chy„. `°¡d L$fhp_u lW$ `L$X$hu A¡V$gy„ S> Ap`Zp lp\dp„ R>¡. S>Nsdp„ `°¡d^d®_u ApZ âhs£ Ðep„ ky^u fpl Å¡hp_y„ afrS>eps _\u. ApS>¡ A_¡ AÐepf¡ S> â¡d`„\ `f X$N dp„X$hp_y„ iê$ \C Åe.

ANpD_u b¡¡W$L$p¡dp„ \e¡gu NyãsNy dpV¡$ Ap `„[¼s [¼gL$ L$fp¡

Ap rhcpN Ap`_¡ L¡$hp¡ gpÁep¡?