Debina Bonnerjee, Chaudhary's co-star who played Sita in the Ramayan series, weighs in on her father:
Father...just the mention of this word makes me smile. I share not one, but loads of touching memories with my dad. He was, is and always will be the ultimate hero of my life.
I am not very open with my dad. He was always busy with work and we (my brother and me) closely bonded with my mom more. But dad was always there -- I could feel it. In spite of being closer to Mom all my life, I still feel like sharing good news with my dad first. Maybe that is why they say daughters are closer to their fathers. I sure feel I am.
Since the time I was a kid, I spoke in a very grown-up manner, very distinctly and clearly. I remember that my dad once got me sweet bread, set me on his lap and lovingly told me using baby-language what he had brought for me. I immediately corrected his pronunciation and said, "Please, this is what it is called, not what you are saying." I don't know what and how he felt at that!
When I grew up a little and wanted to get into modelling, I couldn't gather the courage to tell my parents. I ultimately told my mom about my wish to participate in a Miss Kolkata contest. Mom strictly said no and asked me to speak to Dad. I could not tell him, though.
But my dad understood me, went and filled up the form himself and submitted it. I got the call, participated and even won. A dream which he pushed was fulfilled.
He never had a car but got one for me; he never had his own mobile, but got one for me.
I still feel that his way of supporting me through and through without speaking has made me what I am today. I overheard him telling somebody once, "I am poor but my daughter is rich."
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