As part of an ongoing series, we bring you stories of young Indian Americans who came looking for the Real India and found their real selves instead. Punal Bhavsar recounts his trip to India.
Punal Bhavsar is a native of Pleasanton, California, and a graduate of University of California, Berkeley, where he obtained his degree in environmental science. At school, he was involved in research with plants that removed boron from the soil. He is working towards his arangetram in Bharata Naytam, while working as a tutor. He hopes to create a company that deals with microfinance loans:
Growing up in California, I was given everything I could ever ask for. I grew up in an extremely affluent town surrounded by beautiful fertile hills and thriving wineries. Saying I was sheltered would be an understatement. It wasn't until I was in college that I broke free of my protected lifestyle and realised how privileged my hometown and childhood was.
The first year of college, my parents took me to their home state, Gujarat, to show me how privileged I was. However, their methods were often oxymoronic. Intending to teach me a lesson, my dad took me to see the slums; there, I was blinded to what was around me, for I was comfortably driving around in a chauffeur-driven, air-conditioned SUV.
He also tried to instill this notion by pointing to the unreliable power and water supply. However, these incidences occurred in posh malls or relatives' mansions. He underscored the idea that America is a privileged country, and that the countless advantages of the country make its citizens fortunate to live in it.
Yet simultaneously, he explained that India is the land of his childhood, as Pleasanton is the land of mine. He would reminisce about the activities he indulged in, the miles he walked, the sights and smells he experienced. However, I never truly understood how my parents grew up.
It was because of these sugarcoated trips to India that I never understood my dad's pride in his heritage and the emphasis he put on the importance of being Indian.
Every experience I had in India was simply a vacation of indulgence. I never took anything back except the myriad of pictures of happy relatives and tourist sites.
It wasn't until the Bharat Yatra that this changed.
With the limited time in Rajasthan, all the sites we visited seemed to blur together; however, one experience that stands out in my mind is the day I spent in Pushkar. It was a place of harmonious fluidity, built from both Western and Eastern influences.
The architectural standards and omnipresent cell phone usage reminded me of the Western world; the pervasiveness of the temples, sanctified lake banks, and the frequent recitation of sacred Hindu chants gave the city an Eastern vibe.
Some may claim that the monsoon rain marred our visit to Pushkar; I would disagree. It was the heavy downpours that made Pushkar so assertively memorable.
(From L to R) Nilay Shah, Punal Bhavsar and Rucha Desai at the Pushkar Lake
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